Fairness. What is fairness?
Is it fair that my girl has autism? Is it fair that my girl cannot access the world to get her social needs met in the typcial way?
Is it fair that a typcial girl may not get to throw the ball in one time during a game?
Is it fair that a typcial girl may play one less minute when the team is ahead by 20 so that my girl can play?
Is it fair that these typcial girls might learn something about life from my girl if she was on the team?
Is it fair that they have sleepovers, go to the mall and have a list of friends to call?
Is it fair that my girl is really really trying and going out of her comfort zone to try out for the team?
Is it fair that this really is NOT about her playing basketball, but being part of a team?
Is it really fair to say that my girl can only fill the water bottles?
(and this really is only middle school basketball afterall)